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Hazel Mae Pastrana
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Jackin’ the Beanstalk

“At sinabi ni Juda kay Onan: “Makipagtalik ka sa biyuda ng iyong kapatid at tuparin ang tungkulin ng isang bayaw na bigyan ng anak ang kapatid mo.”
Alam ni Onan na hindi magiging kanya ang sanggol kaya tuwing makikipagtalik siya sa kanyang hipag, itinatapon niya sa lupa ang kanyang semilya para hindi bigyan ng anak ang kanyang kapatid.” – Genesis 38:8-9 Kung bakit masama ang tingin ng karamihan sa masturbation ay marahil sa kagagawan ni Onan. Noong unang panahon Onanism ang terminong ginagamit nila kapag tinutukoy ang masturbation. Lubos na ikinagalit ng Diyos ang pagsuway ni Onan sa kanyang utos. Sa halip na bigyan niya ng anak ang biyuda ng kanyang kapatid ay dinidilig lamang niya ang kanyang katas sa lupa. Dahil daw nakipagtalik si Onan nang walang layong makabuo ng supling, inakala ng lahat na nagmasturbate si Onan. Akala lang. Pero hindi naman talaga. Hindi nagmasturbate si Onan. Coitus interruptus ang ginawa niya. Withdrawal method yun. Hindi masturbation. Kung uupo ka at iisa-isahin ang mga pahina ng bibliya upang hanapan ang kasulatang kinokondena ang pagmamasturbate, malamang natapos na ng katulong ninyo ang Boys over Flowers dvd ay subsob ka pa rin sa kakahanap. Sa katunayan, wala naman talagang nakasulat sa bibliya na ipinagbabawal ng Diyos ang pagmamasturbate. Sinayang mo lang ang oras mo. Pinanood mo na lang sana kung paano inapi ng malditang nanay ni Gu Jun Pyo si Jan Di, e di nag-enjoy ka pa. Sa kabila nito, patuloy pa rin ang pagtugis ng simbahan at ng sambayanan sa mga masters. Sa sandaling malaman nilang isa kang magaling na master, magkakaroon ka na ng bagong mga nicknames, gaya ng manyak, bastos at dyakol. Naiukit nila sa mga isipan ng tao na isang kasalanan ang pagmamasturbate – na ang sino mang gumagawa nito ay dinudungisan ang kanyang sariling dangal, ipinagkakait sa kanyang sarili ang pagkakataong makapasok sa kaharian ng Diyos at inilalayo ang kanyang sarili mula sa daan magdadala sa atin sa langit. Ipinapamukha sa atin na kinamumuhian ng Diyos ang mga gumagawa nito. Pagdyakol, pagsalsal, pagkalantari ng sarili - karamihan naman siguro sa atin ay pamilyar kung ano ang masturbation. Ito ay ang pagpapasigla o paglalaro ng sariling ari upang panandaliang aliwin ang sarili o di kaya’y abutin ang rurok ng kaligayahan ng pagtatalik. Halos lahat naman ng klase ng tao ay nagmamasturbate – lalaki, babae, bata, matanda, sosyal, jologs - lahat ay pwedeng-pwede magmasturbate. Ang masturbation di umano’y ang unang sekswal sa karanasan ng karamihan ng mga babae’t lalaki. Tinatayang nagsisimulang magmasturbate ang tipikal na bata sa edad na walong buwang gulang. Karaniwang minamasahe nila ang kanilang ari sa pamamagitan ng kanilang mga kamay o di kaya’y gamit ang kanilang laruan at gilid ng krib. Ayon sa mga sikolohista, ginagawa ng mga bata ang masturbation bilang pampalubag loob at pangkalma – sa parehas na rason kung bakit gustung-gusto nilang supsupin ang kanilang hinalalaki. Ginagawa nila ito hindi dahil sadyang malilibog lang talaga sila ngunit dahil ito ay ang paraan nila upang matuklasan kung gaano kahiwaga ang katawang ibinigay sa kanila ng Diyos. Marahil masarap nga ang magmasturbate. Nakakakiliti. Nakakapaninding balahibo. Walang kapagurang naglalaro ang limang taong gulang kong pinsang lalaki. Tuwang-tuwa siya kay Ben 10, Bakugan at kanila Power Rangers. Kasabay nito, walang kapaguran din niyang hinaplos-haplos ang kanyang mumunting ari. Hahawakan nang parang baril, kakasahin at itatapat sa bawat isa sa babae niyang pinsan. Walang kapaguran din siyang sinuway ng kanyang ina. “Andrew! Stop that! That’s bad. Nakakahiya kanila ate..” Hindi siya pinansin nito. Tuwang-tuwa sa bago niyang laruan. Maraming dahilan kung bakit nagmamasturbate ang isang tao. Ang ilan sa mga pangunahing rason ay ang paglalabas ng tensyon o ang tinatawag na orgasm stress management. Lalo na sa mga lalaki, kinakailangan nilang maglabas ng punlay o semilya upang mapalitan ito ng bagong reserba. Ang taong nagmamasturbate ay sinasabing nagpaparaos ng init ng katawan at gaya ng pag-eehersisyo, maaliwalas at magaan ang pakiramdam matapos magparaos. Ang pangalawang rason ay ang di-mapantayang kaligayahang nararanasan tuwing kalubusan ng orgasmo. Ang huli’y ang eksplorasyon ng katawan, lalo na sa mga babae. Sa masturbation natin mas nakikila ang ating sariling pangangatawan. Dito tayo inihahanda at sinasanay para sa mas kasiyasiya at mabungang pakikipagtalik sa ating kabiyak o magiging kabiyak sa hinaharap. Dito natin matutuklasan kung anu-ano ang mga mabisang paraan na makakapagdala sa atin patungo sa inaasam-asam nating cloud nine. Sabi nila marami kunong masasamang epekto ang pagmamasturbate. Kuno. Kung talagang totoo ito e di sana maraming lalaki at babae (pero mas marami siyempre ang lalaki) na bulag, baliw, bansot, baog, may aring habambuhay nang nakatayo, may mabubuhok na mga palad at may sandamakmak na kulugo sa bawat daliri. Kung nakakaubos man ng binhi ang pagmamasturbate, bakit patuloy paring dumadami ang populasyon ng Pilipinas? Ang Pilipinas ay kasalukuyang nakakaranas ng taghirap, hindi tagtuyot.

Tinanong ko si Ginoong Eric Manalastas, isang propesor sa Sikolohiya, “Anu-ano po ang masasamang epekto ng pagmamasturbate?”

“Wala” sagot niya.

Ayon pa sa kanya maraming magagandang naidudulot ang masturbation. Una na rito ang lubos na pagkilala sa iyong sarili. Sabi ng mga sikolohista ito raw ay pagkikipagtalik sa iyong sarili. Sabi ko naman: ito ay isang romantikong pakikipagkitaan o date sa ang iyong sarili. Kung baga ito ang ‘getting to know’ stage. Dito mo tatanungin, ‘What are your likes and dislikes?’ ‘Tall, dark o handsome?’ ‘Soft or hard?’ ‘On the go o mellow?’ ‘What are the things you enjoy doing the most?’. Matapos mong magtanong, siyempre ikaw rin ang sasagot. Dito mo bubuin ang manual ng katawan mo – dito mo ilalagay kung saan maaaring matagpuan ang on, off at restart buttons mo.

Ayon din sa mga modernong pag-aaral ang pagmamasturbate ay nakakatulong sa pagbaba ang posibilidad ng pagkakaroon ng kanser sa pantog sa mga lalaki. Ito rin ang tinatawag na nature’s sleep aid. Hindi lang dahil sa pagod ka pagkatapos, ngunit dahil habang nagmamasturbate ka at narating mo ang tuktok ng tagumpay, naglalabas ka ng endorphins o ang tinaguriang happy hormones. Ito ang may pakana sa nakaka-high na sensasyon matapos makaraos. Ang endorphins din ang tinatawag na natural stress at pain reliever. Hindi lang pala nito tayo kinakalma at nirerelaks, maaari rin nitong iniibsan ang sakit ng mga kasukasuan nila lolo’t lola. Ito rin ay tanda ng ating malusog na pangangatawan at pagiisip.

Nakakatulong din ang masturbation sa pagbawas ng populasyon ng bansa. Imbis na gawing pampalipas oras ang pagtatalik, kung wala ka namang perang ipapakain sa magiging bunga ng libangan mo, bakit hindi na lang pumaling sa masturbation. Masaya na, menos gastos pa. Hindi mo na kailangang kulitin si misis o si mister kung wala siyang gana. Kung ayaw nila, e di wag. Kaya mo nang tustusan ang sarili mong mga papangangailangan. Kaya mo nang mag-isa. Hindi na muling mauudlot ang excitement mo tuwing hihiga na sa kama si honeybunch. Kaya mo nang tustusan ang tawag ng laman kahit saan ka pa abutan nito. Masusunod na lahat ng trip mo. Walang kokontra, kill joy, at pipigil sayo. Ikaw ang bida sa dramang gusto mo. ikaw na rin ang director, producer at stuntman.

Ngunit sabi ng marami, hindi maaaring ipalit ang isda sa karne. Kalaunan ay hahanap-hanapin mo rin ang lasa ng karneng hindi kayang mapantayan isda. Di magtatagal ay magsasawa ka na rin sa sarili mo. Walang thrill. Walang twist. Walang surprises. Pero siyempre, mas mabuti na yung meron kaysa sa wala.

Hindi na naman lingid sa marami na hindi masama ang masturbation. Sa katunayan, alam naman ng marami na parte ito ng proseso ng pagbibinata’t pagdadalaga. Alam kong alam ninyong normal ang magmasturbate. Alam ko ring nag-eenjoy kayo dito. Ngunit bakit hanggang ngayon hirap na hirap pa rin tayong tanggapin ang katotohanang ito? Bakit mahirap pa ring isipin at paniwalaang ang katabi mo sa PanPil 19 ay isang magaling na masturbator? Bakit natatakot ka pa ring isiping maaaring ang kamay na hinahawakan mo ngayo’y ang mismong kamay na ginamit ng syota mo nang maisipan niyang aliwin ang kaniyang sarili noong nabagot siya sa klase niya sa English 12? Bakit mas kaya nating sabihing “Teka, brb, jejebs lang ako” kaysa sabihing “Teka, brb, magdyadyakol lang ako” e mas mabantot naman ang jebs? Hanggang ngayon hindi parin tanggap ang masturbation bilang parte ng pangaraw-araw na gawain, hindi tulad ng pagsisipilyo at paliligo.

Alam ko ding alam mo ang sagot dito.

Relihiyon.

Malaki ang impluwensiya ng relihiyon sa ating mga Pilipino. Ito ang sandigan ng ating mga halagahin at moralidad. Ito ang nagbubuklod sa atin bilang isang bansa. Ito ang nagsisilbing gabay na sa araw-araw at sa paggawa natin ng mga desisyon ukol sa ating buhay. Ngunit dapat nga bang ipagbawal ng simbahan ang masturbation? Marahil ito nga ang pundasyon ng ating mga buhay ngunit dapat ba nating sundin ang bawat dikta nito? Dapat bang ipagbawal ang pagmamahal sa sarili?

Oo. Ang pagmamasturbate ay pagpapahayag ng pagmamahal sa iyong sarili. Habang mas nakikilala mo ang iyong katawan, nakakabuo ka ng malalim na pagunawa at relasyon sa iyong sarili. Habang pinaghuhugutan mo ang iyong sarili ng ligaya, dito bubungad sayo ang importansya at kagandahang taglay ng katawang ipinagkaloob sa iyo ng Diyos. Pagkat tayo ay ginawa hango sa hubog at imahen ng Diyos, isang pagpupugay sa Diyos ang pagmamasturbate. Ito’y isang pasasalamat sa katawang ginagamit natin araw-araw. Pasasalamat sa katawang hinubog para lamang sayo. Pasasalamat dahil ikaw ay mayroon nito at ikaw lamang ang may karapatang angkinin ito. Katawang tumutulong sa ating abutin ang ating mga pangarap. Katawang nakakaranas kung gaano kasarap mahalin at magmahal. Katawang hindi lamang ikaw ang nakikinabang. Katawang kayang magbigay buhay. Katawang tutulong sa kapwang nangangailangan, mag-aaruga sa pamilya at magbibigay kasiyahan sa iba.

Kailan kaya natin matatanggap ang masturbation bilang pangkaraniwang gawain ng isang normal na tao, gaya ng pagsisipilyo ng ngipin? Kailan kaya tayo magiging kumportableng tanungin ang kaklase mo sa Kasaysayan 2 kung nagmamasturbate ba siya nang walang pagaalinlangan na tila nagtatanong lang kung kumain na siya ng pananghalian?

Sana malapit na.

Para matapos mo na ang autograph book na matagal nang pinapapirmahan sa iyo ng kaklase mo noong unang taon mo sa hayskul.

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